“What do you do when you know what to do, but you can’t help but let the stress get to you?”
“The suffering comes when you resist the current situation. What are you trying to change?”
“I feel as if I know enough intellectually not to stress out too much about things, and knowing this should help me in most situations… but I keep stressing and the stressing is stressing me out even more!”
“What is the goal?”
“The goal is to stop stressing!”
“This goal cannot be achieved right now. You are fighting against the current flow of life. Fighting against the flow of life creates even more resistance. Turn your vision around and go with the flow. Stress? What is so bad about stress? It is our identified stories and fears around a situation that creates stress and therefore keep us in suffering. “Stress” is not what is driving you mad, it is your identification to something or someone”
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So much of our suffering comes from desiring a different “current situation”. Can we sit in THIS moment and feel the gratitude of our breath? The sun on our face? The ability to call our loved ones and tell them how much we love them? To hug our beloved dog? To walk outside in nature and feel the beating heart of Mother Earth?
If you find yourself identifying to the student above ask yourself these following questions:
- What am I needing to change to feel better?
- Can I have faith that this too shall pass?
- Can I breathe and with each exhale deepen my faith in the Universe’s ability to handle things perfectly?
No matter the situation, let us find a bit of peace in knowing we are taken care of – always.
In wellness,
Susan